Parenting Teens

© Mary McCarthy

She Is 17, And A Sen

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1.   Feb 15, 2008 7:22 AM

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She is 17, and a senior in high school. Found out 2 days ago, she skipped 2 weeks of school, had her friends mother which is a nurse, falsify she was under doctors orders to stay home, and even gave her medication.
Thats just the tip if the iceburg. The last 6-7 months she has been doing nothing but screwing up her life, her future, my life with her father and so on.
I want her out. TODAY.
Though, when (and if) she graduates, the last day of school, she is out and she can move in with her mother. My husband thinks this isnt a good thing.
I told him point blank:
Its either her or me.
I cant handle it anymore.
We have taken her car, cell phone, tv, stereo, and everything else away from her this time around, and she just doesnt care about who she hurts and how.
Without a car, she has no job. I will not allow a bum in MY home, so that means she needs to go live with her mother after school is out.
We have been together for 7 years, and I think I have had my full of this whole thing.

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2.   Feb 15, 2008 11:00 AM

» lost_hope - Daddys "Little Girl"

In response to Daddys "Little Girl" posted by lost_hope:


Well, this is an update.
Seems like the little girl won. I will be staying with my older daughter.
This is just insane.
My words to any people that are put second to a child - -LEAVE as soon as you can.
It will not change. Only you will have to.

-- posted by lost_hope

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3.   Feb 18, 2008 9:01 AM

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In response to Daddys "Little Girl" posted by lost_hope:


UPDATE AGAIN-
She ran away from home this past friday, after 3 days of stressing out and playing the blame game (hubby & me) we found out she decided to go live with "mommy"
Um, not a good choice but better then the streets.
Honestly, I think my husband is not happy about the situation, though you can see the stress slowly fall off of him.
SHE ISNT allowed to return to our home.
Im hoping that our marriage will be better, and I think it will. In fact, last night was the first night in almost a year, we cuddled on the couch and watched t.v.
update you all later

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4.   Mar 20, 2008 7:22 AM

» lacyistonice - Daddys "Little Girl"

In response to Daddys "Little Girl" posted by lost_hope:


OoOK BUT THATS YA DAUGHTER AND YUuU SHULDNT KiCK HER TOOoo THE CURB LikE DAT...SOoO WHAT iF SHE SREWiiN UP HER LiiFE THAT HER && SHE WiLL iiN THE LOooNG RUN REALiZE iT AND SHE WOoOULD SUFFFER THE CONSEQUENCES LATER OoON..
iiF DAT DOooWN WOoORK PUT YA FOoT DOoOWN RETART!!!!

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